Do Your Looks Matter to Women?
Do looks matter? As far as visual creatures are concerned, men top this pyramid. If men are to start thinking about how to seduce women, let alone give women a second look, they have to be simply stunning! It’s seemingly an unfair rule, but what can we say, it’s just how things are. The redeeming factor is, stunning is a matter of perception and everyone has that person, at least one, that just can’t take their eyes off them.
Okay, that will be all for our ‘self assuring’ segment of this series. The truth is men on adultfrienedfinder app judge women by how they look: the face, legs, breasts, hair, eyes and body. You can laud yourself as valuing an intelligent woman who can hold her own when it comes to substantial conversations but, the one thing that absolutely turns you on about her is how she looks.
Do looks matter in men? Of course they do. But not quite as much as in women. And if you are one of those pretty boys or the Adonis of your world then we have news for you, your looks are a great asset, but when it comes to getting women, they will only get you in the door. That is all. Your looks will get you an audition with that girl you want. They will get her to pay attention and be receptive to your advances, but that is it. From then on, you’d better be packing way more than just a brilliant smile if you are to seduce a woman.
It’s a known fact that women value how a man can make them feel much more than how he looks. Techniques like eliciting & mirroring values, spoken NLP patterns, Mr. Smooth, kino, and so on are all strategies based on that very understanding. It’s your ability to make her smile, make her feel warm and protected, give her that deep magical ‘sent from heaven’ feeling that will make her want to keep seeing and even stay with you. That’s what seduces women. Not the guns you are packing.
This is not to say that you should let yourself go, no. By all means, work out, eat well and dress even better, always. You never know when you are going to bump into the woman of your dreams, or maybe you do. Maybe she works at your office and you just can’t get yourself to approach her. The best way to boost your confidence is to dress better. They aren’t lying when they say, ‘when you look good, you feel good.’ Always be sure your hair is well kempt, unless she likes that rugged just-got-out-of-bed look, your clothes should be clean; take a shower every now and then, daily is highly recommended but do not use the cologne as your bathing water, and for all our sakes, put on a good pair of shoes. Women love shoes it’s about time you just accepted it. When you always look good, it is impossible to catch you on a bad…suit day. This greatly boosts your confidence which in turn allows you to Seduce Women like a King!