Understanding men: who they are and how to handle them (in a relationship)
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If you are reading this article, I am sure you already understood: man and women are different and this fact makes understanding men a very hard work. And this is not because we had long hair and they did not and we got dolls and they got cars. We are totally different beings, not only humans with a small biological difference. Man act, think and express themselves differently. If you live with one, you got to learn to understand him better if you want to use him for your purposes . It is especially true if you want to build a strong relationship. In the following five lessons I put down the most basic things you have to know about men.
Lesson 1: Men are simple.
Remember the guy singing in “My fair lady” (“A hymn to Him”): “Why can’t a woman be more like a man?” If you got some time, find those lyrics on the web and read them. You will know exactly how he feels about you. All he wants is that you would be just a bit more like him. In order to do that, you would have to take yourself, cut all the complications, irrational and unexplainable feelings and moods. Then take what’s left and arrange it in a not too big closet with a couple of drawers. Shine through drawers.
You think you are completely rational? I will give you an example. He comes home and he looks like he had a hard day and all he wants is to be left alone. What does he really want? Guess what?! To be left alone! Now he comes home and you look like you had a hard day and all you want is to be left alone. What do you want? Usually you want attention. Hug. A Foot massage. Definitely not to be left alone. Meaning: the opposite of what it looks like. And that makes it almost impossible for any man on earth to understand and do what you want.
Men like hunting, football, good food and naked women. You can easily make a man happy by combining those things. Go to a football game and buy food. Come naked and bring food. Hunting. well also hunting goes well with food . Our desires and wishes are far more complicated. Be aware of this and take the following Do’s in understanding men:
Handle yourself before you try to handle him
We often tend to blame them for many things they are not really responsible for: for our hard lives, for our tiredness, for the emptiness we sometimes feel inside. There are deeper reasons for why do we do it, but I’ll talk about it later. So first understand what is going on with you
And then talk! Explain yourself. Use exact words for what you want from the guy you met with the help of adultfrienedfinder app ios. Nothing will make him happier than if you explain to him how to make you happy.