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Many people think of couples counseling as something that people do when they feel their relationship is in deep trouble, and it is often a last ditch effort to work out problems that may have not be resolved otherwise. Truthfully though, this is something that any couple can have at any time, even when they don’t feel anything is wrong. Couples sometimes do this before they get married, and this might be the very best time to go through something like this.

If you are looking for dating tips, be careful where you go to get it. Quite honestly I have seen a lot of advice out there that is hopelessly invalid and totally unrealistic. Though there are some great tips out there, there are some that are written purely for about three percent of the population. The rest of the people on the planet are apparently on their own. I guess sometimes the tips are made to sell magazines, but I have never known anyone who had a life that might entail the need for these tips. 

I found it hysterical a few years ago when a few women wrote a book called “The Rules”. I don’t know what possessed them to think they knew all there was to know about dating, and it was even funnier when I heard what was in the book. Though there are some things that are common sense in any dating situation, there are no set rules of dating that will work for everyone. I have been married a long time, and haven’t dated since long before I met my husband, but even I know this is true. I suspect a lot of people who got that book ended up very disappointed.

How to attract women seems to be on every shy guy’s mind. Why do we immediately imagine different scenarios with an attractive-beautiful-hot woman the moment we see her? And…why do socially savvy men see her and only think “That’s for me”?

In these scenarios we shy men try to “figure out” ways to get her to like us.

The reality is we don’t know what to do…we only figure it out once she’s gone.

When in the act of getting girls at a bar or club, you may find yourself getting into a conversation with a stunner, lucky you. You probably won’t get anywhere with her If you think ‘you are far too beautiful for me’. Throughout your whole conversation you are going to be portraying a version of you that is inferior to her. She will assess who you are and if you’re a suitable partner for her consciously and subconsciously. She won’t be attracted to you.