Category Archive : Dating

Reconciliation Revisited

I’ve got a definition of reconciliation. I say reconciliation is “the reestablishment of coherent equilibrium in a relationship.” That’s my definition. I’ve said over and over again. I’ve read it over and over again and it works for me. As part of the OM Reconciliation Council, I have the honor and task of periodically sharing conversations with community members who are attempting to resolve conflicts in their relationships. I reference my definition when engaged in these community conversations.

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How to Cure Your Approach Anxiety

There at the magazine section studying this month’s Cosmo, there is the most heavens-parting, drop dead gorgeous blonde you’ve ever seen in your life. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up.

You shake with fear.

You realize, sadly, that even if you got your balls in gear and went for it, you wouldn’t know what to say.

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European Internet Dating

European-dating-club.com: “Welcome to the European Dating Club. This international internet dating site will enable you to contact and meet men and women from around the world, including UK, France, Italy, Germany, Russia, Ukraine, Czech, Belarus, America and South America, for relationships, marriage, casual, friendship or correspondence. Joining is free. We hope that you find love, relationship or make friends through the European Dating site.”

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Putting it out there for all to see

For many of us, giving and receiving affection is one of the best parts of having an intimate relationship, and this may range anywhere from a hand on your partner’s knee to a big, juicy kiss. Everyone has his or her opinion about public displays of affection (PDA), but most people generally accept hetero hugging and kissing in public.

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How Lack of Experience Can Actually be GOOD When It Comes To Attracting Women

I’m gonna make a somewhat outrageous statement…

…and some might not even agree with me!

But here it goes…

You’re lack of experience can actually HELP YOU with women.

But you must make it serve you, instead of hold you back.

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Getting Good Advice on Dating

Nowdays you can get advice on dating from almost anywhere. There are internet columns, magazine columns, radio shows, and television programs which emit tens of millions of words and make tens of millions of dollars giving advice on relationship to strangers with no reason to trust them but desperation. The problem with getting dating advice is that you never know if you are getting good advice. Really how can you weed through all of the sludge, all of the worthless advice on dating and advice on relationship, to find the few nuggets of gold. And even if you do find them, what are the chances that they will apply to you if they were written by a stranger for a stranger in the first place? 

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Dating Tips

If you are looking for dating tips, be careful where you go to get it. Quite honestly I have seen a lot of advice out there that is hopelessly invalid and totally unrealistic. Though there are some great tips out there, there are some that are written purely for about three percent of the population. The rest of the people on the planet are apparently on their own. I guess sometimes the tips are made to sell magazines, but I have never known anyone who had a life that might entail the need for these tips. 

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Rules Of Dating

I found it hysterical a few years ago when a few women wrote a book called “The Rules”. I don’t know what possessed them to think they knew all there was to know about dating, and it was even funnier when I heard what was in the book. Though there are some things that are common sense in any dating situation, there are no set rules of dating that will work for everyone. I have been married a long time, and haven’t dated since long before I met my husband, but even I know this is true. I suspect a lot of people who got that book ended up very disappointed.

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How To Attract Women

How to attract women seems to be on every shy guy’s mind. Why do we immediately imagine different scenarios with an attractive-beautiful-hot woman the moment we see her? And…why do socially savvy men see her and only think “That’s for me”?

In these scenarios we shy men try to “figure out” ways to get her to like us.

The reality is we don’t know what to do…we only figure it out once she’s gone.

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Getting Girls Is Down To What You Think!

When in the act of getting girls at a bar or club, you may find yourself getting into a conversation with a stunner, lucky you. You probably won’t get anywhere with her If you think ‘you are far too beautiful for me’. Throughout your whole conversation you are going to be portraying a version of you that is inferior to her. She will assess who you are and if you’re a suitable partner for her consciously and subconsciously. She won’t be attracted to you.

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