The most common relationship mistakes are easily avoided and the Relationship Doctor is here to teach you how to make your relationship last.
1. No Longer Being a Challenge
In the beginning of the relationship, she wanted you but didn’t know if she could get you. Weeks/months/years later she has you and she controls your life. What fun is that? It isn’t fun for you and it isn’t fun for her, so next thing you know she leaves you.
Avoid sharing your emotions with her too early since this is a major turn-off. Bombarding her with phone calls, dates, presents, and so on is also a no-no.
Remain strong and independent. Whether it is months or years later, your girl you met on adultfriendrfinder will still be dying for your affection.
2. Losing Value
When she first started dating you, she thought you were the most amazing guy in the world. You had every aspect of your life together and you were a man everyone looked up to. Months later and she isn’t into you…..what happened?
You lost value! The guy who initially swept her off her feet is the guy she wants the relationship with: the guy who was talented, successful, and the life of the party. No matter how long it has been, never lose the appearance of being the greatest man on earth.
Most guys usually become apathetic after a while in a relationship. They know they are getting their fun when they want it and take it for granted. No longer do you and your girl do exciting things like using best thrusting vibrator or experience the same sexual tension that once existed.
-The Relationship Doctor
Avoiding Relationship Apathy
If your girl is thinking of leaving you, relationship apathy may be why. Apathy is one of the most common mistakes men make, resulting in a breakup of a long-term relationship.
What is a reason for your breakup?
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Why is the divorce rate in America so high?
Apathy is defined as a lack of interest in or concern for things that others find moving or exciting. This can relate to how you look, what you say, and how you behave. Apathy is commonly found in the stage of a relationship where the couple is comfortable with each other and mutual feelings have been established.
How many times have you seen your friends get into a routine with their girlfriend, resulting in a boring go-nowhere relationship?
How many times have you simply had your girlfriend over for a movie and not bothered to get dressed up or splash on some cologne?
And the MAJOR ONE….
How many times have you stopped being an exciting challenge and turned into a whimp because the girl is already yours? I can’t tell you how many people have had a girl hooked and lost it because they quit their confident dominant role in the relationship.
I’ll tell you one thing. None of those relationships are exciting and none of them will last simply because of relationship apathy!
Whether you are seeing your girlfriend of a few years on the weekend or whether you are going out on your 1,000,000th date, treat it as your first. You know….the first date where you were stylishly dressed, had your best cologne on, and had an exciting fun date planned that you couldn’t wait to go on.
Don’t fall into the trap that tons of inexperienced men, married men, and pros alike have fallen into. It happens to everyone. An old girlfriend of one year would come over a few times a week for a movie and sex, EVERY WEEK. I wouldn’t get dressed up, I wouldn’t plan anything special, and even though I loved the girl and enjoyed the relationship it eventually came to a close since I didn’t keep it exciting and challenging.
Don’t let it happen to you!
Stay vigilant and constantly check your looks, words, and behaviors for apathy.
-The Relationship Doctor