Stop Thinking = No More Fear
Ok, now I’m gonna bring it all home with a tip to handle any “I can’t think of anything to say” problems you might have…
NEVER THINK!
Remember just a second ago how I said “all you need to do is think about it before you approach a girl and your mind will be at ease”? Well that’s the last thing you should think about… once you’ve put your mind at ease turn it off and just begin taking action without thinking about it… forget consequences, they don’t exist anymore until you’ve got her number.
Thinking is BAD when approaching women on adultfrienedfinder, don’t think about : What you should say, if she will reject you or not and if she even feels attracted to you… and definitely don’t think about your surroundings, forget about the other people near you and worrying if they are looking at you. DON’T THINK.
“Well if I’m not supposed to think… then how will I even talk?”
Good question… here’s how :
I’m not telling you to try to block thoughts from entering your mind… that’s impossible unless you’ve been a monk for the past 20 years. I’m simply telling you not to THINK about them once they are in there, and this is how you do that while still being able to talk…
ALWAYS say something related to the first thing that pops into your head… say it without thinking about it. If the first thing that pops into your head is “I don’t know what to say”… then say just that! Say to her “I don’t know what to say, your so hot I can’t stop looking at your body” or for a teasing approach “I don’t know what to say… I’m still trying to figure out if I want your number or not”. If the first thought that enters your mind is “What if she isn’t attracted to me?” then go ahead and ask her! Say “Do you find me to be attractive? Because I think your hot and we’d look really good together”. Get the idea? It’s all about NOT thinking about anything and just acting on impulse.
Wanna know a secret?
There’s no such thing as “the right thing to say” to a girl… you can ask people all day for advice on what you should talk about with women when you approach them and every response you get will be the wrong one… even if it’s coming from the mouth of Don Juan or Cassanova themselves. Stop searching for the right thing to say and just talk. The belief that players and other types of ladies men are successful with women because they “say the right things” is a myth… total bullshit… it’s non-existant. They get women because nothing is holding them back from simply saying whatever they want, and it’s their ability to do this that makes them attractive… not the specific words that come out of their mouth.
All of this may sound really complicated right now… but just give it a little while to absorb into your head then come back and read this again, that time you’ll be like “Ok, that’s not that bad”. I’m not going to lie and tell you that this will be the easiest thing you’ll ever do… but it won’t be the hardest. You want to get over your fear and have the ability to walk up to ANY woman without worries right?
Well now you know how.
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