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The odds of you getting a life-threatening STD aren’t as bad as public commercial announcements make them out to be. But they do exist – and the mystery that surrounds them just confuse the issue. Here we’ll break down with actual facts and stats just how safe – or unsafe – you are in the world of seduction and sex.

First Things First

Dude, wear a condom. Always. Just do it. I’m not going to lie to you and tell you that if you have sex with a sick lady without a condom, you’ll get sick. Odds are you won’t.

Imagine taking the time to a get a woman’s phone number and then never calling her.

Now that might sound crazy to you, but many, many men do this every day.

Or imagine writing back and forth with women online and never getting them on the telephone.

I won’t waste my time with this type of cyber flirting and you shouldn’t either.

First of all, why would you want to talk to a woman on the phone?

I mean what is the purpose of the phone call?

Sounds like a silly question, but please think about this for just a second.

Dating Question…
So far, I’ve met two women from the internet, and both times they weren’t as they described themselves. One said she was “average build” and was clearly overweight. What’s the deal?

So you’re a woman’s woman, and your last quick search helped you meet the perfect match. But what do you do now? How do you get her to see that you’re the one for her?

Girlfriend, listen up! These five surefire tips are guaranteed to give her the message that you think she’s pretty special… and then some!

If I asked you to choose one thing that epitomizes the best of being a woman, what would it be? If you’re like me, you’d answer, “Why just one?” Let’s see if your responses made my list:

For many of us, giving and receiving affection is one of the best parts of having an intimate relationship, and this may range anywhere from a hand on your partner’s knee to a big, juicy kiss. Everyone has his or her opinion about public displays of affection (PDA), but most people generally accept hetero hugging and kissing in public.

We met at Caribou Coffee—in the gay ‘hood. My first time there—what better place for an infrequent first date then someplace I’d never been. Of course I should have known how it would turn out. I hated coffee—loathed the sweet aromatic scent of the brew—even compared the acidic stench to skunk juice. But it was better than trying to carry on a conversation in a smoke-filled bar where I could hardly hear a word.

I suspect that Cupid doesn’t have a sexual preference; that’s a human quality. So when it comes to us gays and lesbians, I bet Cupid is an equal opportunity matchmaker—just as likely to shoot an arrow at us as anyone else. But somehow the arrow has missed you so far, and you haven’t made that heart-to-heart connection yet.

So you’ve had that all-important first chat. You even received an “I’m glad to meet you” email. Good start. It’s hard to meet someone who wants to date—especially in the online gay community. Most want stats and pictures first—and if you’re not perfect—adios amigo. If you don’t send drop-dead gorgeous pictures, create scintillating chat and meet immediately, you get nada—nothing.

There’s no denying it: Members of the gay and lesbian community are significant contributors to the community of online dating. Almost all reputable internet personals sites include same sex matches. In this busy world where meeting quality people is often difficult, online dating is a great option. But before you start checking out the profiles online — or even create your own free profile — let’s consider what most of us are looking for in a date.