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Below is a brief rundown of some casual locations for meeting women and developing your pickup game. These are fairly common and accessible places that most guys will have access to. Some may mesh with your style, and some may not. Try as many as you can and see what works for you. And remember, stay relaxed and be social when you’re out sarging. Rather than making it your goal to close on women, make it your goal to have fun, socialize, and be confident — numbers (or more) will likely result.

Tell me if this is you… You’ve started working up the courage to talk to women out at the bars, but there’s a problem: You’re not getting anywhere. Maybe she shuts you down right after your opener, maybe she bails out 5 minutes into the conversation, or maybe she sticks around just long enough to give you a fake number. In any case, you’re facing female rejection. What steps do you take to move past this?

You see the discrepancy in his personality and you want him to change. You want him to become the good guy he is some of the time all of the time, but he is unwilling and you think if you fight hard enough reason or love will get him to take action and he will eventually wake up.

And so many women do this. You make that potential everything, when it’s not everything; it’s barely anything. Scraps mostly.

A lot of you women get so duped by the connection or the allure of the elusive man or the man behind the shadows. You think he’s OZ.

I spoke this to Paul, I spoke this to him from a place of masculinity inside of me that is truly baffled by what I see in many men. It was the old world looking at the present, utterly thrown.

To say that what I shared with Paul didn’t affect him would be a lie, but how he handled it made me marvel at the man he is. Paul could have taken what I shared as a personal attack. He could have had a lot of reactions. I saw the pain in his face as the truth poured from my lips. He saw the truth in what I was saying. He saw it in himself and this world. Instead of him taking any of it personally, instead of him squashing my feelings with his own he did something no man has ever done for me.

You see, the small is invalidated a lot in light of the bigger picture, but that isn’t how healing works. You can’t just jump, you have to fully feel through a feeling so you can release it, so you can understand it for what it is. When you hear someone rage and you fight them, you are harming their ability to heal. Sometimes all a person needs is to be heard, is to be received. Feelings have merit no matter if they are a whole picture or not.

Have you ever had an instance where you know something that you don’t fully know, but you know you know it?

It sounds nonsensical right?

How can you possibly know something you don’t know?

This feeling can be so weird.

You get bits and pieces of information, kind of like a lost dream you remember aspects of, but you cannot remember all the specifics.

5. Being Shipwrecked

In 2010, I got shipwrecked in an attempt to rescue a fair maiden in distress. Little did I know that she was slowly and incrementally sucking all of the life and orgasm out of my body.  It was only once I lost all of my energy, got sick, and completely off course in the journey toward my purpose did I realize the fate I had created for myself.  Before that I was on track, I was going somewhere.  And then, BAM! My boat hit rocks off shore and there I remained stranded on a deserted island.  It took me three years to get back on track and slowly build back all of the energy I lost.

1. Getting Drunk on Love

There’s something about that certain touch and feeling. It’s a complete out of control state.  I love nothing more than to find her.  The one who I can nod off with, with a simple whisper of my name or a passing touch.  Where the world is suddenly engulfed by her sex and turn on.  It overtakes me. It’s like my own custom made heroin batch.  Where I can feel the warmth of her orgasm moving and pulsing through my veins.  It’s definitely a drug.  And I fall asleep.  This is my junkie’s favorite type of siren.

Feeling soooo happy Craig went to LA for Ignited Man (OneTaste event to teach men how to be in relationship with a TurnedOn Woman) this weekend.

We have two things we struggle with in our relationship.

1. My reaction to his upset about mess on the table and the way he communicates about it to Noah;

2. His reaction when I connect with another man.

It’s so hard for me to experience his pain.