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Changing your attitude in awkward environments

Say you don’t like clubs. Most guys don’t, because most guys have a had a number of negative experiences in them (even if the worst that ever happened was you saw some shmuck leave with a lady and you went home with your hand).

Using the same exercise, instead of focusing on something you said or did, focus on your ATTITUDE when you enter the club.

Then, rewind to walking in the door, or just before that girl gave you the cold shoulder, or whatever you choose as the marker for when the NEGATIVE started affecting your behavior.

What Makes a Good First Impression:

warmth, sense of humor, imagination, confidence, success, fitness, individuality, body language, conversational ability, aspiration, power, creativity, kindness

What Makes a Poor First Impression:

self-centered, closed minded and judgmental, lack of manners, poor conversational ability, negative life attitude, lack of education, immature, indecisive, no opinions, lack of integrity, war stories from past relationships, complaining, shallowness, only interested in sex, power games, manipulation, materialistic

Do you believe that weight lifting machines are sacred, beautiful things which should be worshipped and adored, and if they like you, THEN you’ll be allowed to work out on them?

Do you go and brag to all your friends about how great your work-out was, and how you can’t wait to do it again?

I’m sure you don’t.

I’m sure when you want to go work out, you set aside some time, go to the gym, power through the work-out, then shower and go home and get on with your life.

I want to ask you a question…

It’s kind of personal, so I hope you don’t mind.

And answer it honestly. After all, it’s just me here. And I promise not to tell the answer to anyone.

So here it is:

Are you a virgin? And if not, then at what age did you lose your virginity?

The Rules of Attraction

A MAJOR MISTAKE THAT MEN MAKE is feeling insecure. They think that they must call and keep in touch with a woman at all times. Don’t do the same thing! Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC. Think about the great women-magnets of the big screen, like the character of James Bond or Indiana Jones. What woman wouldn’t want to be with someone who appears one way on the outside, yet hides the rugged spontaneity of an adventurer beneath? These guys are never insecure! That’s because they lead an exciting life, and women have to grab hard if they want to hang on for the ride.

She was perfect. It was just your first date, but you know it. You want to pursue this further, but you don’t know how she feels. How can you make sure that she asks for another date … and another … and the next … until she can’t keep her hands off from you?

I noticed a strange thing a few years back. Every time I went out with my co-workers, no one came up to me or glanced my way. But when I went out to the very same places with my friends, who are all guys, I’d get tons of lingering glances and inviting looks.

SEX IS A SWEATY, CLUMSY ACT THAT’S ABOUT AS SPECIAL AS WORKING OUT AT THE GYM FOR AN HOUR.

Let’s talk about this for a moment.

Do you spend your life dreaming of the day you can finally go to the gym and work out?

Do you believe that weight lifting machines are sacred, beautiful things which should be worshipped and adored, and if they like you, THEN you’ll be allowed to work out on them?

She was perfect. It was just your first date, but you know it. You want to pursue this further, but you don’t know how she feels. How can you make sure that she asks for another date … and another … and the next … until she can’t keep her hands off from you?

You know the types of girls that are good enough for you to get your rocks off with but not good enough for you to have any sort of relationship?

Ok, now what does the average player do to these types of girls? He turns them into booty calls… only calling them at 3AM when he leaves that club without pulling a new babe but still wants to get a nut in. Well, I always felt bad for these girls… which led me to figure out something :