People, when looked at as a whole… are good natured. They avoid being honest and try not to be mean to others simply because most want to avoid conflicts. Why? Simple, because they are afraid of conflict… it’s for this very reason that you are scared of rejection… and it is also the reason why you shouldn’t be!
Read MoreWell if you have managed to arrange a date with a girl, you have done a lot of the hard work. However, for some guys it often unravels on the first date, usually because the date becomes boring or uncomfortable. Two things might happen, she might say “let’s just be friends” and you might lose the chance of a relationship with her, or she just might not want to see you again. How do you ensure a 1st date goes smoothly and makes her want to see you again?
Read More“I just want to be nice to her and love her…”
“I want to treat her like a princess”
“If only she knew what a nice guy I was, then she’d like me!”
- Every AFC to have ever lived
The fact that you are reading this is a step in the right direction. You are a recovering AFC. Don’t be afraid to admit it, we were all there at one time or another. We understand. But you are different, because you have come here to try and change that.
Read MoreOk, now I’m gonna bring it all home with a tip to handle any “I can’t think of anything to say” problems you might have…
NEVER THINK!
Remember just a second ago how I said “all you need to do is think about it before you approach a girl and your mind will be at ease”? Well that’s the last thing you should think about… once you’ve put your mind at ease turn it off and just begin taking action without thinking about it… forget consequences, they don’t exist anymore until you’ve got her number.
Read MoreToday I want to talk about a touchy subject.
The subject of TRUST.
Namely: Should you ever trust what a woman tells you?
Now, we all know that people lie. Both men and women do it. I’m willing to bet you’ve told a lie at some time in your life too.
So everyone lies. Yet, we are inclined to trust people, aren’t we? So lying can’t be a trust killer (at least, if the lie is a small one anyway).
But despite that, know this one simple fact:
Read MoreWhen girls don’t call back after dates, guys are always completely stunned! She even said that she had a great time, how dare her! The story has occurred millions of times: a guy goes on a date with a very attractive girl, is nervous beforehand but manages to pull it together and have a good date. He’s ecstatic until time goes by and the girl won’t return his calls or agree to meet up again.
Read MoreRemember this: Storytelling = Entertainment = Good Time
And if you can show a woman a good time, they’ll always want to be around you!
Now, another interesting fact about naturals with women, is that they always tell the same stories over and over again.
Read MoreI hope you’re taking these lessons to heart and will make a commitment to apply all this free golden information I’m sharing with you.
When I was first starting out trying to get better with women, I WISH there had been a resource like my course, The Art Of Approaching, to guide me in my quest to improve my love life.
But it’s because there was no resource like The Art Of Approaching that I decided to write that book, so you wouldn’t have to go through all the trial and error I did!
Read MoreWelcome to all the loyal BAP followers who have one man to thank for opening their eyes to a new world of excellence. The Player personally invited me to share some of my knowledge with you, but first let me tell you a little bit about myself, so that you can appreciate how I came to be.
Read MoreToday we’re going to talk about tragedy. What a downer, but it’s gotta be done.
We’re going to talk about The Tragedy of the Self- Defeating Man. Catchy title, this might not be so bad.
Something that tends to happen with ALL men – and especially those who haven’t had as much success with women – is they get stuck on ONE woman.
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