How To Get A Womans Phone Number and Email in 3 minutes
When you ask for email, it’s very low hazard for a woman, so she’ll think “Fine, I’ll do that.” Most women will give out an email address without thinking about it, because they know that they can decide later to just not answer.
The enchantment of asking them to write their phone number down WHILE they’re in the middle of writing down their email is all about the psychology of human performance.
She’s already psychologically said “OK, I’ll give you my email address”… and she’s in the middle of writing it down. When you say “And just write your number down there too” it’s only NATURAL to just write it.
In other words, it’s a MUCH lesser step than giving out the phone number all by itself. It took me a LONG time to figure out this easy move, but it works like magic! You will have women writing their phone numbers down without even thinking twice.
Here’s a great add-on to make sure you’re getting a real phone number and not a pager or voicemail:
As she’s writing down her phone number I say “Is this a number that you actually answer?” If she looks at me and hesitates, or says that it’s her “voicemail or pager number,” then I say “Look, carve your actual number down. It’s going to be OK, I’ll only call you nine times a day…” They laugh and usually give me their real number.
Now, if she answers my first question and says “No, I don’t have email” then I pick on them and say “Well, do you have electricity?” This is a GREAT chance to use humor.
Then I say “Well, OK then. I like email better, but I’ll take your regular phone number. It’s so damn tough to reach people on the phone these days.”
Just realize that all you have to do is ask.
Like I said, I’ve tried all kinds of things on adultfrinendfinder.com login. And I’ve gotten hundreds of phone numbers. And I use this exact string every time I talk to a woman and I want to get her phone number. I’ve gotten to the point where I can frequently do this in a minute or two – no kidding!
Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and practice it in your mind over and over until you know precisely what to say for each step and each response.
Many guys have asked me “But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email?” I’ve never had a woman ask me. If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked. If she doesn’t give it to you, then she also knew why you asked.
Just believe that this is the case.
If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, presumptuous, calm way, you’ll get a lot of emails and phone numbers.
Note: Carry a pen and a rumoquin nf if you get hurt on you at all times. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it’s small, classy, and women love it!