What women look for in a guy…
K. is 19. And HOT. I mean, walk-down-the-street and cars veer off the road hot. And she enjoys it. She’s the kind of young girl that makes men happy just to look at.
She was the perfect girl to get this secret from. What are the caliente chicas really after?
“Yeah, not what you are supposed to look for. I mean, really, what gets you a little hot and bothered?”
She looked down at the floor, then back up at me, and smiled.
“You know what I really look for? A normal guy. A normal guy… with nice shoes.”
“That’s it?”
“You have any idea how hard that is to find?” she asked. “If I could just find that, I would be the envy of every girl in the world. Yep. That’s the top of the heap right there.”
Normal guy with nice shoes. Huh. You’d really think it would be more detailed than that, or maybe like the guy would have to have a chiseled six-pack, or drink a certain light beer, or drive the Batmobile.
But normal guy? Nice shoes? That’s it? Anyone can do that, right?
Well, yes and no.
See, when it comes to getting babes, lots of guys think it’s really hard.
The truth is, as men know, that getting girls on adultfrienedfinder is either easy, or next-to-impossible.
If you know the things that women look for, it’s easy. But if you don’t, you can work and work and work, but you’ll never get the choice with women you want.
See, girls live in a different world than we do. It’s nice there… it looks pretty, and smells like flowers and bath salts.
Among these finer things that make up the world of a hotie, fashion is at the top of the list.
Women use fashion to establish and maintain the social order. And the more status a woman has, the more critical the correct fashion is.
A hotie needs a guy who looks right. When she looks at you, she immediately knows how she will feel going places with you and showing you off to her friends.
If you don’t look like you can dress the way she wants, the way that fits her life, she can’t take a chance on you.
She needs to know that you are the kind of guy who dates girls like her. That’s how she knows you will be appropriate to her. She wants someone who matches. Why?
Because then you will understand her.
Girls do not want to waste time explaining to men what’s important. No one wants a fixer-upper. They want a house that’s already really nice and comfy and clean, and they can move right in and start showing it off to their friends.
Make sense right?
There’s one other little secret about shoes that NO ONE else knows, but I’ll tell you, because, you know, I like you and want you to do well.
She looks to see how clean your shoes are to figure out how clean you are.
Shoes are basically the clothing analog to good grooming. Just like your body, shoes need to be MAINTAINED to look good.
It takes a bit of care and patience to keep good shoes looking great, and that says a lot about how you take care of yourself…
AND… you guessed it.
How well you take care of others in your life as well.
She’s thinking about what it would be like to sleep with you pretty much from the start. But she’s also thinking “will it be fun and crazy and sexy, or will it be gross and slovenly and uncomfortable?”
Guess which one she’s gonna pick if you’re wearing beat-up, smelly old sneakers?
So what to do?
If you don’t know fashion, start asking. You don’t have to be Project Runway-level expert, but you can’t make mistakes.
Every guy makes them. I used to. And that’s why I put out my Dress To Impress Program and actually taped the process of giving 5 guys a fashion make-over.
The Dress For Success Program
I took all my years of experience and put it into this DVD set, so any man could watch and finally understand what his style has been telling women all these years.
If you don’t know what your style says now, you need to figure it out.
After all, K. is still out there looking for that normal guy with sweet zapatos.
And you know the first thing she’s looking at, and it’s not your bank account.
Get your style on and go meet some women!