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One of the largest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching women?  I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!

The best way to increase your chances of having a successful “approach” when approaching women is to make an AMAZING first impression.   First impressions usually happen within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone and can last as long as 2 minutes.  After this window is over, your “first impression” chance is gone and it will take a real bit of work to change the persons opinion.  That’s why it’s important to nail a great first impression each and every time

Feeling lonely? Understandable. Tons of guys have problems picking up and attracting women. Unfortunately for most of us (including myself), we weren’t born with the magical abilities to be able to get girls without much effort. I was finally fed up with my situation, so I set out the better part of a decade ago and I discovered exactly what worked with women, and more importantly, what didn’t! So now here I am, and I am going to give you my top 3 tips and tricks that you can use RIGHT NOW to start picking up women and will get you right on your way to learning how to get girls!

No matter what the circumstance or time period you’re looking at, if you are examining something with more than two males a pattern becomes very clear.  One is always the alpha male and the other is always the beta male.   Even in nature outside of our human species, we see alpha males in the form of alpha gorillas leading their families, alpha lions leading their herd, alpha wolves leading their pack, etc.  In nature the alpha males get to make all of the decisions, have the best possible options available to them, and more importantly – gets their choice of mate.  It’s the way of life and it’s embedded in our DNA that this is how it goes no matter how hard we try to fight against it. 

So you want to be a player, huh?  Well, I don’t blame you.  Becoming a player certainly has it’s own benefits that any man would find amazing.  From being able to date and sleep with virtually ANY woman you want all all the way to not being tied down to anyone, why wouldn’t anyone want this kind of lifestyle?  Lucky for you, I have spent the past decade of my life MASTERING these skills and abilities.  Now, I’m here to give you some of my favorite tips and tricks for being a player and getting ANY woman you want!

It is the 21st century and it’s time to face facts; people are texting way more than they are calling each other these days.  This is a known fact, however every time I turn around I read some self-proclaimed dating guru saying how texting a woman is a waste of time.   Not me.  I have put myself to work and mastered the texting game and now I am here to report what I found.  Here is my quick guide to how to text a woman.

Feeling soooo happy Craig went to LA for Ignited Man (OneTaste event to teach men how to be in relationship with a TurnedOn Woman) this weekend.

We have two things we struggle with in our relationship.

1. My reaction to his upset about mess on the table and the way he communicates about it to Noah;

2. His reaction when I connect with another man.

It’s so hard for me to experience his pain.

I think I remember being a child and having it be that my desire was my world, in a sense. There was no division or hesitation. There was yes of course I want to do that! And wait where are we…oh I love this place too! And look at this thing over here, this is amazing. And look there’s a little girl my age – now she’s my new best friend, mom! Sometimes there was envy at other children having toys I didn’t have. But then the next thing would take my attention and absorb me fully into it and I would forget the not-having.

I’ve got a definition of reconciliation. I say reconciliation is “the reestablishment of coherent equilibrium in a relationship.” That’s my definition. I’ve said over and over again. I’ve read it over and over again and it works for me. As part of the OM Reconciliation Council, I have the honor and task of periodically sharing conversations with community members who are attempting to resolve conflicts in their relationships. I reference my definition when engaged in these community conversations.

I scattered the pieces of my being so that no one could find me.

And then I couldn’t find me and that devestation forced me into the greatest hell I have ever known.

I hit rock bottom.

And I stayed there till I was ready to wake up.

FOREVER exists in moments.

You might be breathing, but that doesn’t mean you are in your experiences, embodying your life. It doesn’t mean you know who you are, what you want and need or what your real values are.