I never intended to become a blogger.

I never knew that the words in my heart would be out there for the whole world to see, judge, or project on to.

I didn’t start writing one day and think I want people to hear my voice and resonate with me.

I wrote to hear my own voice.

I wrote so that the part of me that I don’t always stop long enough to engage or listen to, could finally be heard.

I see ‘ghosting’ as a major cry for help in two directions.

In a situation where ‘ghosting’ occurs there is the person being ghosted and the ghoster.

Both parties need to be addressed in this situation for this issue reflects something unconscious in both parties.

WE NEED TO MATURE OUR HURTFUL, DISCONNECTED BEHAVIORS AS INDIVIDUALS FIRST AND THEN COLLECTIVELY.

Avoidance does not make better human beings, it creates cowardly and emotionally inept humans who cannot confront problems, issues, crises, or the ramifications of their own actions. It creates victimizers who don’t even understand the full scope of their recklessness, and a trail of hurt hearts in their wake.

If you are getting ghosted and it hurts you, acknowledge your pain and the gravity of how you feel. Make. No. Mistake. This behavior is fucked up. No matter what someone else does, DO NOT make someone else’s emotional crimes your reality. DO NOT TAKE SOMEONE ELSE’S SHITTY BEHAVIOR PERSONALLY. How someone chooses to behave is about them, not you.

Neither were dating other people, but the official “official” convo hadn’t happened yet.

Zoe and Jake spent almost every weekend together. He even let her keep some personal items at his place, and she kept his favorite post orgasm snacks, for when he was ravenous after sex, stocked in the fridge. He often needed to raid her refrigerator after a big blow and being the thoughtful gal Zoe was, she remembered his needs and acted accordingly, just to let him know just how much she cared.

Your most precious gems: your heart, body and soul.. you give them away thinking bartering your value is the ONLY way to get your needs met. Let me tell you, giving yourself away, and letting go of your self, is the FOR SURE way, to NOT GET WHAT YOU WANT.

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How many years did I have to suffer through the agony of wanting to be in love and be in purpose? Because to be human means you are always divided. You are always needed in two worlds. You will always want to be in love because in love is where you touch your soul, the deepest core of surrender that you can, it’s where you get fucked the way you want, it’s where he and I meet and know God together. It’s where everything aches fervently and deeply and it’s ok. Yearning as breathing, as eating, as sleeping.

There is simple concept that I want to show you, and just this principle will totally enhance your interactions with women 100 fold…

Let me ask you, if I told you now that you had to go approach girl and  “pick her up”… what would be the first things that come out of your mouth?

Let me guess, you’d ask her QUESTIONS like the following:

• “What’s your name?”
• “So where are you from?”
• “Oh, you’re from Germany… do you like it here?”
• “So what do you do?”
• “Umm… have you been here before?”
• “How long have you been in town?”
• “Do you live around here?”

I’m sitting here at work, busy txting a few girls and I’ve just noticed a very important tactic that I use to build rapport and attraction with women. This “tactic” really has to do with making a conversation “fun and exciting”… INSTANTLY.

The reason this is important, and I’ve repeated this many times over, is because at the end of the day, women are most importantly looking for emotional stimulation and if you give it to her, she will love you for it. Now, the easiest and quickest way to provide emotional stimulation is to turn a conversation “fun and exciting”… and you do this by making the conversation creatively illogical. I’ll show you what I mean.