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When I had completely let go of everything between us was – of course – the very moment when the molten electric liquid flooded in.

Our sex was always intimate, always hot and unexpectedly thrilling, but this time it cut deeper. I felt like I had accepted the worst and he had accepted the worst and still the desire between us came alive and demanded to be given full access. I knew that I was willing to stay open and go all-in no matter what our relationship was changing to but I did not think that he would let go without the handrails of safety we had had in place. But he did.

There was a moment when he opened back up again and his sex flooded into my body like molten electric liquid, filling me up slowly, lighting up my cells, causing me to almost weep with gratitude for the enlivening sensation of his touch, for the shutting down of my brain and the complete take-over of my body. Like a fish being returned to the sea after having been caught on dry land, everything realigned and made sense again. This is who I am inside of my sex. All of me is able to come out and my body is revealed as being made for this, made for touch, made to be taken and fucked. Every curve of me and the way I naturally move, the shape of my face, the darkness in my eyes, the fall of my hair: all were made for this, for this sinuous, liquid, formless place of feeling-without-thought, where intuition and desire are king.

Most who are drawn to me enjoy adventuring into the caverns of the psyche, the underbelly of our inner workings. I like excavating. Turning things over, deconstructing. My mind works like a conceptual archeologist, wielding a dusty paintbrush and magnifying glass, sometimes a pick, with little numbers on pins that map the position of each element in an idea’s skeleton. My favorite brain activity is to determine the structural integrity of paleolithic schemas and tear them apart to find where their bones truly belong.

How many years did I have to suffer through the agony of wanting to be in love and be in purpose? Because to be human means you are always divided. You are always needed in two worlds. You will always want to be in love because in love is where you touch your soul, the deepest core of surrender that you can, it’s where you get fucked the way you want, it’s where he and I meet and know God together. It’s where everything aches fervently and deeply and it’s ok. Yearning as breathing, as eating, as sleeping.

Where The Biological Attraction Triggers Come From

Ok, so where does all this “girls respond to personality”, “guys respond to looks” come from?

Well, it actually comes the pre-historic days due to the fact that we’re all nothing but glorified cavemen and cavewomen. Basically, humans have been around for upto 400,000 years, but modern humans have only been around a tiny proportion of that time. This means that our attraction “switches” come from our cavemen day!

Ok, the title is pretty self-explanatory… and it’s a pressing issue for guys and their abilities to attract a girlfriend. So, once more for the record:

When it comes to attracting women and getting a girlfriend… LOOKS DON’T MATTER.

If you haven’t heard this before, then this will be a revelation for you (as it was for me when I first heard it)… and if you HAVE heard it before, well now I’ll just explain to you exactly WHY such is the case… and HOW to use it to your advantage.

There is simple concept that I want to show you, and just this principle will totally enhance your interactions with women 100 fold…

Let me ask you, if I told you now that you had to go approach girl and  “pick her up”… what would be the first things that come out of your mouth?

Let me guess, you’d ask her QUESTIONS like the following:

• “What’s your name?”
• “So where are you from?”
• “Oh, you’re from Germany… do you like it here?”
• “So what do you do?”
• “Umm… have you been here before?”
• “How long have you been in town?”
• “Do you live around here?”

Throughout the years, practically all seduction or dating “gurus” have come to the conclusion that VOCAL PROJECTION is one of the most important skills that you can work on.

What is vocal projection? Well, its nothing other than talking louder.

For most guys, just by changing this single aspect of themselves and talking louder when around women will get rid of most problems in creating attraction.

Ok, so you’re talking to a girl that you really like, and then suddenly she hit’s you with it… BANG!

What am I talking about?

I’m talking about that famous line… “I have a boyfriend”. Well, it might not be that exact line, in fact it could be any of the following:

I’m sitting here at work, busy txting a few girls and I’ve just noticed a very important tactic that I use to build rapport and attraction with women. This “tactic” really has to do with making a conversation “fun and exciting”… INSTANTLY.

The reason this is important, and I’ve repeated this many times over, is because at the end of the day, women are most importantly looking for emotional stimulation and if you give it to her, she will love you for it. Now, the easiest and quickest way to provide emotional stimulation is to turn a conversation “fun and exciting”… and you do this by making the conversation creatively illogical. I’ll show you what I mean.