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I hope your dating is going well and that you are learning something. Bars are places that are traditionally considered the place to go when meeting people. Perhaps its the atmosphere, or perhaps its the alcohol! Either way, its useful to have some clues when meeting women in bars.

My friend Bob goes to the gym all the time. He got to know a girl there, and, after a few weeks of bantering back and forth, asked her on a date. She said yes. When he went to pick her up, he wore track pants and a t-shirt, thinking that, as they always saw each other in workout clothes, he could wear what felt most comfortable. Instead, she met him at the door wearing black slacks and a low-cut blouse. It was an uncomfortable evening … and she avoided him at the gym ever since.

Changing your attitude in awkward environments

Say you don’t like clubs. Most guys don’t, because most guys have a had a number of negative experiences in them (even if the worst that ever happened was you saw some shmuck leave with a lady and you went home with your hand).

Using the same exercise, instead of focusing on something you said or did, focus on your ATTITUDE when you enter the club.

Then, rewind to walking in the door, or just before that girl gave you the cold shoulder, or whatever you choose as the marker for when the NEGATIVE started affecting your behavior.

What Makes a Good First Impression:

warmth, sense of humor, imagination, confidence, success, fitness, individuality, body language, conversational ability, aspiration, power, creativity, kindness

What Makes a Poor First Impression:

self-centered, closed minded and judgmental, lack of manners, poor conversational ability, negative life attitude, lack of education, immature, indecisive, no opinions, lack of integrity, war stories from past relationships, complaining, shallowness, only interested in sex, power games, manipulation, materialistic

Do you believe that weight lifting machines are sacred, beautiful things which should be worshipped and adored, and if they like you, THEN you’ll be allowed to work out on them?

Do you go and brag to all your friends about how great your work-out was, and how you can’t wait to do it again?

I’m sure you don’t.

I’m sure when you want to go work out, you set aside some time, go to the gym, power through the work-out, then shower and go home and get on with your life.

I want to ask you a question…

It’s kind of personal, so I hope you don’t mind.

And answer it honestly. After all, it’s just me here. And I promise not to tell the answer to anyone.

So here it is:

Are you a virgin? And if not, then at what age did you lose your virginity?

The Rules of Attraction

A MAJOR MISTAKE THAT MEN MAKE is feeling insecure. They think that they must call and keep in touch with a woman at all times. Don’t do the same thing! Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC. Think about the great women-magnets of the big screen, like the character of James Bond or Indiana Jones. What woman wouldn’t want to be with someone who appears one way on the outside, yet hides the rugged spontaneity of an adventurer beneath? These guys are never insecure! That’s because they lead an exciting life, and women have to grab hard if they want to hang on for the ride.

She was perfect. It was just your first date, but you know it. You want to pursue this further, but you don’t know how she feels. How can you make sure that she asks for another date … and another … and the next … until she can’t keep her hands off from you?

I noticed a strange thing a few years back. Every time I went out with my co-workers, no one came up to me or glanced my way. But when I went out to the very same places with my friends, who are all guys, I’d get tons of lingering glances and inviting looks.

SEX IS A SWEATY, CLUMSY ACT THAT’S ABOUT AS SPECIAL AS WORKING OUT AT THE GYM FOR AN HOUR.

Let’s talk about this for a moment.

Do you spend your life dreaming of the day you can finally go to the gym and work out?

Do you believe that weight lifting machines are sacred, beautiful things which should be worshipped and adored, and if they like you, THEN you’ll be allowed to work out on them?