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You will constantly catch me quoting my signature phrase “game is all that matters”, which I know to be true. However, that does not mean that you do not need to try to look your best once you’ve become skilled at picking up women.

Being able to look YOUR absolute best should be a part of your game, and will give you an advantage over most men. Many men seem to lack in this area, simply because of the fact that they are not aware of how important small flaws in appearance are to women, and believe me when I tell you this… they always notice them.

Too many guys attempt to learn seduction from the comfort of their chairs.

The fact is you need to go out into the field and get real, actual practice to improve. Only through real practice can you learn the nuances of seduction and really internalize the new behaviors.

One of the most common complains women have about men is that they just don’t PAY ATTENTION.

Seriously, have you ever had a girl ask you “Are you even listening to me????” or better yet, “You’re NOT listening to me!”

C’mon. We’ve all been there before.

Well, the ladies do have a point. It is very important to PAY ATTENTION.

Meeting and seducing women is a glorious EXPERIMENT.

And the guys that succeed best are the guys who have the Experimental Mind.

To be successful with women, you should have your mind in a learning mode.

Even if you totally bomb out with a particular woman, it is not a failure. Rather, it was a grand experiment that didn’t end the way you wanted it to. But it is still a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. Take what you learned about the experience and use it to YOUR advantage for next time. No harm, no foul- a big experiment, that’s all.

You might find this unbelievable… but did you know that there are people who are terrified of going through a drive through at a fast food place.

For some reason, they are scared of the whole “talking speaker” thing. There’s so many phobias these days, and this is yet another one of them.

Now, let me ask YOU something. What are you afraid of when it comes to meeting women?

If you are prone to jealousy, you might speculate about what you think your partner is doing now and might do in the future. You need to realize that your feelings about your partner are the issue, not your partner.

When you are jealous, everything is a forgone conclusion for you. You are sure your importance in your partner’s eyes has been diminished. You are certain that you will lose her if you don’t put a stop to her “extracurricular” activities. Because of your fears and insecurities, losing her is the only future you can envision.

So you’re tired of being alone and tired of being rejected? Tired of asking women for their phone numbers and being given “1-800-Get-Lost”?

If you truly want to get more phone numbers and more dates, then you have to make a change in how you approach the whole dating thing. It’s not that you’ve been a failure; it’s just that your past techniques haven’t worked very well for you.

I’m sure that everyone has heard about playing “hard to get”, however, not many know why this tactic works so well to attract the opposite sex… or the correct ways to make it work to your advantage. Get out your pen and paper, or get your printer ready, because I’m going to break it down for you.

The next thing you need to do is make a habit of approaching women. Don’t set out with any goal other than to talk. Don’t worry about getting her number or asking her out; simply have a conversation. See what you learn from it.

Make your goal to approach 1 woman the first night. Then 3 women the next night, and 4 women after that.

By the time you have approached 8 women, you will have noticed something. It gets easier.

I hope your dating is going well and that you are learning something. Bars are places that are traditionally considered the place to go when meeting people. Perhaps its the atmosphere, or perhaps its the alcohol! Either way, its useful to have some clues when meeting women in bars.