Pickup Events

Pickup Events

One of the most interesting and exciting challenges that men face in life is where the best locations for meeting women are. We are always searching for that Holy Grail, but ultimately, no one place is ever an absolute gold mine, especially if your tastes in women are broad and open-minded. Unlike the standard roll call of the usual places like clubs, pubs or bars, this article is going to give you the inside scoop on a few Player-friendly events that are successful pickup locations.

Take a class

Taking a swing in a different direction from adultfrinendfinder (but still very much educational), one of the most underappreciated yet Player-friendly events to meet women are by taking classes, such as seminars or lectures. Oftentimes, these will involve a range of academia, including investing, self-help, volunteering, political discussions, or even ideas to promote an activity (photography always being an interesting conversation piece on my end of things). Going a step further, you can always take cooking or dancing classes, and show your forte with the hands-on approach (lucky you), killing two birds with one stone. 

Here’s the catch — you’re going to have to participate. Classes are usually taken by enthusiasts on a particular subject so you can’t just walk in unprepared. If the discussion is about Southeast Asia, then know something about the native communities, about the areas in question. Likewise, if you’re taking a dance class and you’ve been chosen to demonstrate your salsa skills, you better know your way through a six-step movement. Whatever the occasion, you’ll get a chance to meet and converse with your target, and taking the same class will put you on some common ground. Impress her with your passion for a particular subject and an engaging discussion, and afterwards, you can always talk about it more over a nice dinner.


Here is your classic, friendly neighbourhood get-together that every one knows and loves. Anyone with a hint of a social life knows that these places are where you can let loose a bit, relax and enjoy good company and the food and beverages are always a hearty engagement. Usually held on a sunny weekend or for a special occasion, these events host the community and bring people together, guys and girls alike. Often times, most people you know at a party are friends, neighbours or family members, and it’s likely the object of your affection knows the same people you do. This gives you an advantage — when you and your target know the same people, it instantly adds credibility to your efforts and eliminates the ”stranger” element that oftentimes works like a monkey on your back that you just can’t shake. You will have a built-in comfort with her.


This one is as about as tried-and-true as a good pair of shoes; there are so many opportunities to hook up and so many reasons why it would happen.Think about it — weddings are a time when the emotions pour and the tears drip; the single women are questioning their own love lives when they see their friend trade vows at the altar, which gives you the perfect opportunity to waltz right into her grasps. Now, I have written on how to pick up women at weddings before, and generally, I’m going to give you advice on the same lines. Put yourself on her level. This is paramount to your success at a wedding — find that commonality the two of you can share, and work from there.

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