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You will always notice that many of the couples who come to these kinds of events are married or in healthy strong relationships, where they communicate what they want physically. Here are some statistics from the swinging scene for you, 60% of couples said that swinging improved their relationship. 90% of those with less happy relationships said swinging improved them, almost 70% of swingers claimed no problem with jealousy and swingers have rated themselves happier (“very happy”: 59% of swingers compared to 32% of non-swingers) and their lives more “exciting”.

Here are the top 10 seduction skills presented to you by seduction expert, The Player. You will find that I have already covered a lot of these topics, so if we both agree they are important, odds are that you should look into them.

Seduction experts believe that being a challenge is important when seducing women. A lot of this is due to psychology – people want what they can’t have. For example, think about the girl that had a crush on you but then starts going out with a different guy. Let me guess: all of a sudden you find yourself lusting for her. When you don’t easily give in to a person who has feelings for you, often they will want you more and work harder to get you. If you agree with this, there are ways you can use this to your advantage.

Social status relates to how important or popular you are and is important when seducing women. That is why celebrities, athletes, rockstars, and millionaires get so many women. Women’s attraction is much more complicated than men’s, partly because status places such a large role in their attraction. Because of this, it is important to know some of the factors that make up your status.

Kino, or the art of touching, is practiced when seducing women to create a stronger connection and an aura of sexuality. Think about that one women you know where for whatever reason, when your hands brush it sends a shiver up your spine. Or think about that one women showing how confident and sensual she is by always locking arms with you, or holding your hand, or giving you a tight hug. Touch, in its most basic form, is just simply one of the man’s five senses. But in its details, touch allows a full range of emotions and meanings. Here is why the experts advocate touch so much:

Being positive is one of the most important traits for making friends and being sociable. Everyone knows that one person who is always complaining, has a negative outlook on life, and is always putting themselves down – the “Debbie Downer” or “Sad Sally”. The truth is that hanging out or being around these people is depressing and a drain. People want to spend time with uplifting people who bring out the best in those around them. This is how you can become one of those people.

Socializing is one of the most important skills a man can master because the benefits are endless. A very social person has high-quality friends, knows everyone, and can easily adapt to new situations. Think about how reassuring it would be to have friends who are always there for you in times of good and bad. Think about how useful it could be to be friends with the stockbroker, the butcher, the barber, and the dry-cleaner. And think about how great it would feel to walk into a company party and instnatly become the life of it.

Male fashion is overlooked by men, however style is a critical area that women pay way more attention to than we think. Don’t believe me? Men never really pay attention to what brand of shoes a woman is wearing or the subtle overtones of color her scarf adds to her outfit. So why do women spend hundreds of dollars on shoes and clothing and always get dressed up when they go out? Women constantly assess what other women are wearing to see where they stand with them, so you can sure bet they are also looking at you and assessing what you are wearing.

Asking women out is the second stage of dating, assuming that approaching women is the first. Again, this is an area of dating that is often overcomplicated and overstressed by men. Keep it simple.

Along with being confident, my biggest advice for men when asking a women out is to be nonchalant about it. Don’t make asking a women out on a date a formal procedure requiring a lot of thought.

Many girls think it is easy for a guy to approach women. Even though it is the first step towards getting a date, it is one of the hardest and most nerve-wracking step for most men. Men wonder what to say, how to act, and whether they’ll be rejected. However, the truth is that all of these fears are unreasonable.