How to talk to girls
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SECRET REMEDY TO TALKING TO GIRLS
To men, women are magical, beautiful creatures who they love to impress. However, it can be very hard to know how to talk to girls, whether you are a teenager or a grown man who has been on the dating scene for years.When you try to talk to them, you trip over your words and nothing makes sense. Approaching a woman does not have to be so difficult and nerve-racking with advice for everyone below.
CREATE SOCIAL VALUE
This is vital.There are many ways you can do this.
Women can be described as herd creatures, who look for approval from their close friends. Therefore a decision to be attracted to a man will often be influenced by whether or not their pals approve of him. This means you have to get into their good books, tell them funny stories. Simply get their attention.
Another way to get social proof is by allowing the girl you are trying to impress to see you talking to other hot girls or have a female friend with you who ‘talks you up’. You can go to adultfrinendfinder.com login and date beautiful women.
The second step is to
PULL HER AWAY FROM HER FRIENDS
Her friends are a help to you at the beginning, but once she shows an interest in you, they can get in the way.
All you need to do is tell the girl you have something to show her, and tell her friends that you want to borrow her for a quick minute.
This is when you can move on to step three.
CREATE BOND AND CONNECTION
Now that the two of you are alone, you can start to get to know each other. Find out her values, share an intimate story with her that illustrates your sensitive side.
You should aim to talk and build on the bond for at least 20 minutes before you ask for a date or her number etc.
In your mind believe that you are not the lucky one if you manage to bag the girl you want, but she is lucky to have you showing an interest in her.
Girls have a natural attraction to confidence.It is to be noted, however, that there is a fine line between confident and cocky.You can be confident within yourself without boasting or putting all the focus of a conversation onto you.
MAKE HER LAUGH
Ask any woman in the world what quality she likes in a man and she will say ‘sense of humour’, someone who makes her laugh. This is because, in a woman’s point of view, a guy who is funny is also confident and this makes her feel more comfortable around him
You need to find out what her sense of humour is before you start cracking some jokes so as not to offend her.
If a girl laughs at your witty jokes and your humour, then it is a sure sign that she is interested, even if only a little
Another thing that a girl sees confidence in a guy is when he makes good eye contact with her during a conversation. You must ensure that along with eye contact you are actually listening to what she is saying and ask her questions so she knows you are paying attention. Whatever you do, DO NOT stare at her.This will make her feel uncomfortable and awkward.
Girls feel special when you give them a compliment, a real compliment. If she looks nice in that dress then tell her because chances are she wore it for you to notice her.
LET HER TALK
Women absolutely love to talk about themselves, so let them. This means you don’t have to worry so much about talking about yourself and trying to impress her. The more talkative she is, the more it is a sign that she is attracted to you.You need to be talking at least 50% of the time each, however, is she is willing to talk 70% of them time, she really is interested.
You do not need to talk about yourself and tell her everything about you. She will ask if she really wants to know. It will also mean that you retain a bit of mysteriousness about you that will keep her interested.
MAKE SURE YOU ARE WELL GROOMED
Before you talk to a girl or go meet her make sure you have a shower, put on deodorant, do your hair nice and wear decent clothes. A pair of casual pant that fit properly and a shirt is perfect. Girls love it when a guy makes an effort in his appearance to impress her and smells nice too.
DATING IS A GAME OF NUMBERS
The idea behind this is simple. The more women you approach, the better your odds of attracting and impressing ‘Mrs Right’
Try going to classes, clubs and events where you can meet women who have the same interests as you.Build confidence in your social life to be able to approach any woman, anywhere.
ADVICE FROM NINE YEAR OLD ALEC GREVEN
Alec Greven may only be a little boy, but he has written his own guide to dating. Some of his advice is extremely simple, yet is very helpful and makes so much sense.
His first tip is not to become desperate. A girl does not like a desperate guy who becomes obsessive and wants her attention all the time. Instead, try to impress her by showing a skill that you have.
This is the most important piece of advice. Do not act fake or like a phony.A girl will notice and will be turned off straightaway. There is no such thing as a perfect guy, so don’t try to be one. Be real, smile and look her in the eye. She will trust you and feel comfortable with you.