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A lot of guys email me for help because their buddies are “messing up their game”.

Here’s my advice: If you friends screw up your game every time you try getting a girl, it’s time to stop hunting with them.

You can still be good friends with them and you can still hang out with them all you want, but don’t expect them to help you any when you’re trying to talk to a hottie.

I’m gonna make a somewhat outrageous statement…

…and some might not even agree with me!

But here it goes…

You’re lack of experience can actually HELP YOU with women.

But you must make it serve you, instead of hold you back.

So I’m sitting at a café in Amsterdam, and by the time you guys read this, I’ll be back in the States.

But I was hanging out with Markus and a big group of people, and we were talking about The Game and everything else, and what the difference is between a real, natural approach and some of the stuff the guys do when they’re basically playing it as a game.

Right now, we are a little bit over a month out for the U.S. Presidential Election.

It seems like ever where you go, you see or hear something about John McCain or Barack Obama.

There are a lot of issues these two discuss – the economy, national security, and foreign policy…

Imagine for a moment that you found yourself being in the state of mind where you honestly believed that you had absolutely no options when came to attracting women.

For some you this might be a relatively easy thing to do because that is what you already feeling and imagining in your mind at this moment.

The issue isn’t what to say, the real issue is are you truly comfortable in your own skin so that you can communicate comfortably and retain your masculine core around a woman of that level.

It doesn’t matter what you say and if you’re thinking of that, you’re not there yet. Keep working on your natural game or you’re going to be forced to solitude or endless ‘approaching’ that goes nowhere except for fool’s mate.

Here are some differences between “teasing” and “insulting” a woman.

1) A tease isn’t serious. An insult is meant to hurt the the other person.

Tease: Your shoes don’t match with your socks.

Insult: Your shoes are ugly.
 

Here’s a sample conversation deepening routine that I use on strangers all the time.

1) Fluff talk.

2) Build rapport.

3) Share one vulnerability.

4) Ask either one of the following questions,

I’m a complete movie freak – love ’em!  I’ve been a movie geek as long as I can remember.  I love seeing stories of great heroism, great love, and even greater idiocy.  They inspire me to think, dream, and question the limits of possibility….and sometimes they just make me laugh and realize I’m not the only goofball in the universe without all the answers….I’m in the majority.

An interesting topic came up the other day.  Something that happens to a lot of guys when they start to get better with women is issues with their friends.  They find that they can’t go out with their friends because their friends sabotage their success. 

It’s a real issue because no guy wants to give up his buds, but it’s very disheartening when you’re good friends who aren’t as good with women do little things that constantly , belittle you, discredit you or blatantly cock-block you.