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I want to talk to you about the importance of meeting women.

Seriously.

There are a lot of people out there who see my site and think:

“I only want DATING ADVICE, I don’t care about knowing how to meet women.”

Sometimes, I just shake my head at this.

“Getting your confidence up to approach women”

…There’s just a whole problem in that statement to begin with but this is a serious issue affecting millions of men.

Have you ever seen a beautiful woman and wanted to approach but you felt your physiology change? She was maybe just standing there but you felt butterflies in your stomach and you thought about some way to open and capture her interest?

Do you really what to know what determines whether or not a particular method to attract women or diction technique will work for you?

Well, the truth is just about every seduction technique and method to attract women will work for you if you know what you want from women and you are willing to face the realities of rejection with women.

In this article I will show you another tip on how to be a man:

Hey there, gentlemen (and some ladies, too). Hope things are going well. I’ve been getting a good number of great questions from you guys, so thanks for that. Let’s get to this letter which sets up today’s lesson by bringing up some excellent points:

If you’ve been dating for awhile, you’re probably aware that a lot of women like to make comments about how men are jerks and how much it sucks to date an asshole. (It’s a common topic on first dates with some women.)

The typical guy will usually agree with her, which will then prompt the woman to start whining about her past relationships and abusive ex-boyfriends.

This is a HUGE mistake on the guy’s end! Why?

Women, who need to know the reasons why you broke up with them, will never actually be satisfied with whatever reasons you give them, if you give them a reason at all.

After a breakup, of course she is going to want to know the reasons why you broke up with her both out of simple curiosity and a perhaps a need to defend whatever reasons you might give for the breakup; in an effort to “get you back”.

Every now and then a man will come to me wanting to know how he can find out if a woman likes him as more than friends.

He will describe the relationship that the two of them have and how he is pretty sure she is attracted to him just not certain.

While most of the time this is just an illusion of his mind and she only likes him as a friend; there is a fool proof way to find out if she likes you as more than friends and the sooner you do it the better.

I don’t read the Internet discussion forums on pickup much anymore, but I was looking at one the other day and saw a theme repeated that bothered me.

It goes something like this:

“I’m a recovering AFC, how do I become a PUA?”

or

“I used to be an AFC, Now I want to be PUA”

Now normally I avoid using jargon like the plague, but for this to make sense I’m going to explain what these terms are (I promise you’ll never see me use them again, don’t YOU use them either)

Way back in the 60s right up to the early 80s, going the “nice guy” route, being the perfect gentleman, buying women gifts, treating them right, and being ‘there for them’ whenever they needed their man seemed to work well with women.

But naturally as time progresses, things changed, people changed and that included a large majority of the female population… What used to work in the past has somehow stopped working altogether.

I often talk about the importance of acting like a leader when it comes to dating and succeeding in life.

Not surprisingly, many of my readers have emailed me in the past to express their concerns on the subject. One of the most popular questions that I get all the time is, “Do I really have to put down other guys in order to be good at dating?”

To me, this objection comes from a “faulty logical construe”. (More on this concept in the future…)

After all, have I ever TOLD you to put down ANYONE in order to impress a woman?