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Q: Anna asks:

We have been married for three years and this has gone on since. I never know when or for how long, he finally told me that his ex who he was for 8 yrs had them same “complaints” as he calls my concerns, he really doesn’t have a reason to offer me. When we are emotionally connected its great but for no apparent reason he leaves emotionally. I have tried discussing this with him, writing my feelings to offer to do anything to prevent this from happening again but I get no real answer We went to counseling tried 3 different ones trying to find one that wouldn’t come to the conclusion that he is an emotional cripple what can be done. I’ve been told my counselors that i need to accept this and not take it personally or leave the marriage because the pain is destroying me. Do you have any ideas for me.

A psychological study done last year found that sleep preserves emotionally charged events.

This means that if you have a fight with your partner and don’t resolve it before bed, you are more likely to hold on to the fight  and your hurt feelings in your permanent memory. Not a good thing for your relationship!

Recently a client asked me how she would know if she was in a good relationship. If she was doing a good job at her work, she would get promoted. If she was doing well in school, she would get good grades. But if she was doing well in relationships, well, what would she get?

The answer to this question may seem beyond obvious – you would have love, of course, one might say. But typically, people can’t tell whether they are in a good relationship or not. Can you?

In my search to accelerate personal and relationship growth for clients, I have been sampling guided-visualization CDs and MP3s. I have probably tested at least 30 different guided meditation CDs and have finally come up with a list of five that I highly recommend to anyone trying to patch up a difficult relationship or working on attracting “the one.”

Below is a list of the CDs, and coaching on how I suggest you use each one. If you are searching for a way to heal your heart and improve your relationship and love life, I suggest you give these a try. I think you will find them enormously helpful.

The Mistake:

Being with a compatible partner and yet still wondering if there is someone better suited for you out there.

At some point in every relationship, and in some much sooner than in others, one or both people wonder if they should leave and find a more compatible, better-suited partner elsewhere.

I had a conversation with a friend the other day.

I was struggling with how I was feeling about a particular situation. My feelings were strong and I was making choices based on these feelings that I didn’t like very much. This kept happening over and over and I was starting to get frustrated with myself. I was starting to feel like a butterfly captured in a net.

This can be said for all relationships, but it is specifically true for romantic relationships.

What stage is your relationship in? Or, if you are not in a relationship, at what stage do your relationships always end? Why?

Knowledge can be power – if you know the stage you are in or the stage at which your relationships always end you may be able to see events in a different way as they unfold, and perhaps even change their course.

The power struggle, stage 4 of relationships, is the deciding point of the relationship, and solidifies your future together. There are two possible ways the couple comes out of a power struggle, which is why each of the following stages has two options:

Relationships go through predictable stages as they grow and develop. This can be said for all relationships, but it specifically true for romantic relationships.

These stages are unavoidable and happen in every relationships. The key to a happy relationship is to know what stage the relationship is in and dealing with well with that stage.

What stage is your relationship in? Or, if you are not in a relationship, at what stage do your relationships always end? Why?

If you are reading this article, I am sure you already understood: man and women are different and this fact makes understanding men a very hard work. And this is not because we had long hair and they did not and we got dolls and they got cars. We are totally different beings, not only humans with a small biological difference. Man act, think and express themselves differently. If you live with one, you got to learn to understand him better if you want to use him for your purposes  . It is especially true if you want to build a strong relationship. In the following five lessons I put down the most basic things you have to know about men.

Warning: An Unsatisfied Woman Can Make Your Life Very Miserable or Just Walk Out On You

If you want to know how to make a woman cum by eating her up you need to concentrate on these 3 things: her vagina, her clitoris and the stimulation of her G spot.
And no its not as simple as you think so lets dive deeper:

1.Constant clitoral licking alone doesn’t do the job and usually just makes the woman feel Worse.

2. You should start circling her clit with the tip of your tongue and, slowly lick your way down her labia to her slit and slowly work your way up again to her clit.