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ou mustered the courage to approach her and navigated the interaction all the way to getting her number. You pat yourself on the back and start picturing dates, sex and relationship ups and downs.

Yet she’s unresponsive when you text and never calls you back. Getting her out proves a Herculean task, and even when you do it, your dates seem lackluster and seldom if ever lead to sex.

Playing hard to get is typically thought of as a female behavior. However, balancing interest with disinterest is a corner stone of flirtatious interactions and one of the best ways to build attraction.

We all like a challenge. It’s fundamental human psychology. Playing hard to get works because we want what we can’t have and appreciate things more if we have to work hard to get them.

No, I don’t mean cardio and weight training.  Although I do advise you do that. (I will be sharing a killer post on looks soon)  This is an exercise I was first advised to do long ago and I still suggest students do as well.

What I want you to do is write out at least five things that You want a girl to know about you, and things you want in a girl.  Often guys don’t know what to talk about, nor do they have any qualifications on which to screen women out.  If she’s beautiful that’s great, but that doesn’t mean that she will be a good fit for you.  This exercise will give you something to fall back on when you are talking to girls.

men·tor [men-tawr, -ter] noun
1.a wise and trusted counselor or teacher.
2.an influential senior sponsor or supporter.

Aligning with a good mentor is a simple and overlooked action that can be one of the most rewarding things for your success.  This has just hit me recently, as I have made some solid connections with people who have helped me immensely on my current journey to success.

You’re excited.

You ought to be excited; you have a date tonight and she’s gorgeous. You got her phone number a few nights ago at the swanky club downtown. At first she seemed intimidating and aloof, but by the end of your conversation she seemed totally into you. You had things in common. She had a good sense of humor. So you called her the next day and made plans to go out tonight.

Ever wonder what a woman would think if you told her you studied
how to meet and attract women?

What if you told her you took a workshop from a company called
PickUp 101, what would happen then?

Would she run for the exit and burn your phone number when she
got home?

Would she slap you and get mad at you for being some kind of
creepy guy who manipulates women?

I walked into the bar, and knew she was looking at me. Actually, she couldn’t see the entrance from where she was sitting, but she was looking *for* me. My spidey sense told me so.

I walked past the pillar in the middle of the bar and saw her standing near a small leather couch. As our eyes met, she quickly looked away. She’s shy. And small. – A cute Thai girl hanging out with her friends (one guy and one girl – also Thai).

Hey guys,

I met this totally cute cashier at a coffee shop by my apt who just started working there evenings and weekends. I chatted her up a bit and she told me that she had just moved to SF. Bantered with her some, but kept things casual. So my question is, how should I go about asking this girl for a date?

I mean, should I go to the coffee shop a few times and banter with her more each time, or should I just ask her out next time I see her? Also, need tactical advice on how to ask her out. I’m just not sure how to approach a hired gun. Anyway, any good strategy is much appreciated and I’ll let you know the results.

Andy: Can you talk about that?

Lance: Yeah. It was an amazing event for me because we had a lot of really great products out there, I mean Fearless First Impressions, Charismatic Conversations, I mean, Zero Drama Dating was a great event and a great product. But we never really revealed the material I think we were best known for, which I think is the Real Rapport workshop.

Andy: What’s the next step?

Lance: Well, you know the thing I want to say about dating is that most guys I talk to, a lot of guys that I talk to don’t think dating is a problem. I mean you’re looking at me kind of, I mean some guys will say I need to have a game plan. But other guys will come to me and say I can’t get dates and when I have a date it usually works out pretty well.