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And there’s even a whole kind of old kind of, if you look at the old stories of the gods and the goddesses and romances happen and just different kind of mythology you see the same thread running through so we know it’s not just a western civilization thing. Because there’s some real biological urges that express themselves in certain stories of how men meet women.

Lance: But you know most, it’s just true, most guys can’t go to the places that women want to take them and that’s why when you learn this skill it’s so powerful because it’s not easy for other guys to copy. They can’t just copy what you say. They can’t just try an mimic your body language. They have to be able to do emotionally what you’ll be able to do when you do this stuff, so.

Andy: Yeah, you can literally see it in their face where they’re having fun, she’s into you, but the guy keeps going, he’s not paying attention and any sort of connection that you could have had just kind of slips away. So, it’s just, yeah, it’s exactly what you say. You’ve got to stop as soon as you’ve hit like maybe that third laugh or, and just get real and really get connected.

Lance: She probably goes out all the time. She probably met a hundred men in the last week or the last month or whatever and she’s probably had a lot of dates. She probably just ahs this constant influx of guys in and out of her life and that’s why she’s flaky. There’s nothing wrong with her. She’s just all, you know.

Lance: You know, and you just kind of ask yourself because I meet women at like Whole Foods or at the gym, you know I have other cool thing that I do. Like I love to kite board or salsa dancing and you know. It’s like do I want to meet a woman who goes out to 3 am. and drinks which means she probably smokes and I don’t, I’m not a big smoker personally.

So, Lance, I know that you’re here on the line so well let’s start off. What is it that you’d like to talk about with DayGame and building connection with women and just dating in general?

Lance: Well, Andy, I think those are the three just real hot topics that I’m really focused on. You know, we talked a lot about a lot of things since we’ve been working together here now for three years. Thanks for sticking with me all this time.

K. is 19. And HOT. I mean, walk-down-the-street and cars veer off the road hot. And she enjoys it. She’s the kind of young girl that makes men happy just to look at.

She was the perfect girl to get this secret from. What are the caliente chicas really after?

“Yeah, not what you are supposed to look for. I mean, really, what gets you a little hot and bothered?”

She looked down at the floor, then back up at me, and smiled.

“You know what I really look for? A normal guy. A normal guy… with nice shoes.”

Most people begin conversations by discussing mundane stuff: the weather, the crowd at the party, what they do for work, and the slow line at the coffee shop. Such conversations often become stale–but they don’t have to. They can lead to excitement and romance.

Boom. Boom. Boom. The club music is annoyingly incongruent with this beat in my chest. She is young, exotic, and beautiful. My throat feels constricted, the veins of my forearms and neck push outward with each heartbeat; I nervously wonder if other people see it. Boom. Boom. Boom. I don’t know her; I don’t know what to say; I don’t know how she’ll react. I cannot know, except by finding out. Boom. Boom. Boom. I could walk away and make it end, but then the excitement would be replaced by regret.

I remember wanting to talk to this really pretty girl one time. I finally got the nerve to go say hello to her. My palms were sweaty and my heart was racing. Every insecure thought i’ve ever had about myself was going through my head weakening my resolve by the moment. I get within earshot of this girl and her friend when she looks up at me and smiles a bit. I return her smile as i walk closer. She looks back at her drink in front of her as i am now only a foot or two from them. Then as if guided by some unforeseen force my feet don’t stop. I continue walking by her without a word and go right into the bathroom as quickly as I can. I am mortified at my lack of a spine. When i gain my composure I settle up my tab and walk out of the bar in shame.