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I don’t read the Internet discussion forums on pickup much anymore, but I was looking at one the other day and saw a theme repeated that bothered me.

It goes something like this:

“I’m a recovering AFC, how do I become a PUA?”

or

“I used to be an AFC, Now I want to be PUA”

Now normally I avoid using jargon like the plague, but for this to make sense I’m going to explain what these terms are (I promise you’ll never see me use them again, don’t YOU use them either)

Way back in the 60s right up to the early 80s, going the “nice guy” route, being the perfect gentleman, buying women gifts, treating them right, and being ‘there for them’ whenever they needed their man seemed to work well with women.

But naturally as time progresses, things changed, people changed and that included a large majority of the female population… What used to work in the past has somehow stopped working altogether.

I often talk about the importance of acting like a leader when it comes to dating and succeeding in life.

Not surprisingly, many of my readers have emailed me in the past to express their concerns on the subject. One of the most popular questions that I get all the time is, “Do I really have to put down other guys in order to be good at dating?”

To me, this objection comes from a “faulty logical construe”. (More on this concept in the future…)

After all, have I ever TOLD you to put down ANYONE in order to impress a woman?

I was with a friend of mine the other day who was in town visiting, and he said to me “I actually do see women I’m attracted to, but when

I do I don’t want to go over and bother them.

She’s probably hit on all the time, so she would probably be annoyed that I’m walking over to talk to her.”

So I looked at him (while keeping an eye on the road at the same time),

If you want to judge the character of your girlfriend quickly, start by looking at the close friends she hangs out with.

Likes attract likes. It’s just one of the universal rules of attraction.

If a woman hangs out with a lot of gold diggers, then most of the time she will be a gold digger too -even if she hides it well.

My readers often email me to complain about how the girls they like are always “too busy” to hang out with them.

I usually feel like laughing whenever I hear this.

The first thing that a guy should ask when asking out a “busy girl” is…

“Is she really busy?”

If a woman tells you she has to “think” before she agrees to go out on a date with you or to become your girlfriend, don’t fall for it.

It’s a stall!

Think about it, if a woman REALLY wanted to see you, she would have said “YES!” immediately. She wouldn’t have told you she needed go home and “think” about it.

Do you REALLY want to sleep with a LOT of women?

… or do you want to find one with whom you have CHEMISTRY?

Sure you can sleep with a lot of women for a time, but in doing so, most guys realize that chemistry is more important than numbers.

You won’t have chemistry with every person you meet. In fact, I’d say true chemistry is rare.

In this article, I’m going to propose to you an outrageous theory.

I want to tell you that we fall in love when we’re NOT in our crush’s presence.   

Remember the last time you fell in love with a girl? How did it happen?

What I am about to tell you may be a little bit controversial.

In fact, your mind will probably be screaming, “NO! Don’t listen to this!” very soon. (This is normal, as I will explain to you shortly.)

I am here to tell you that if you’re not having the kind of success you would like to have with women, it’s probably because your mind is ENJOYING the failure.