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If you’re not sure if a woman likes you…then I’ve got some bad news for you…

YOU HAVEN’T BEEN ADVANCING ENOUGH!

It means you haven’t advanced enough when you had the chance to…

Or even worse…

In this article what I want to talk about is the idea that another man can be more “dominant” than you.

The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power – he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.

Whenever I pick up a self-help book, I always read something about “peak states” – the “optimal states” that some self-help coaches feel their readers should be in 24/7 in order for them to become overnight successes.

I also often hear from readers who are obsessed about getting into the “right state” before they meet women.

Apparently it’s something that’s very popular among some other dating or “seduction” coaches. You do mental exercises for a few hours to get an adrenaline pump before you go out to meet women.
 

nterestingly enough, a question that I get asked quite often is, “Marius, what if I am too busy to date?”

Well…if this question has popped into your mind before, then I’ll have the ask you the following question,

“Are you really too busy, or is it just an excuse?”

Overcoming social anxiety is easy if you know that the world is a friendly place. But, I find most people do not walk around with this mindset.

I live in a city that is by no means crime free. Sure, there are muggings and assaults and drug dealing and all the TERRIBLE CRAZY SCARY things you see on the news every night in my town. Yet I have never experienced any of these terrible things.

When I was just starting high school, I can remember being ridiculously shy. A big part of the reason for this was that I didn’t have a very good self image.  I didn’t believe in myself, so it was hard to have the confidence to talk to people. After all, why should they care about what I had to say when I knew at some level that what I had to say wasn’t very worth while anyway.

Maybe you had a time in your life where you can relate to how I felt back at that time. Maybe that time is still with you even now to some extent. If so, read on.

If you have ever tried a new sport or activity, you know you it takes some time before you get it down.

It’s not like you can just pick up a golf club and then you become the next Tiger Woods.

Well, that is exactly what Marcus in Canada expected. He sent me an email griping and whining because he sent out 1 letter to 1 woman and she didn’t respond.

One of the biggest issues most guys have is after they’ve FINALLY gotten a woman’s phone number, they’re really unsure of what to do next.

I mean, you know you’ve got to call her, but what are you going to say?

This is where most guys stumble.

Look at this email I got recently from a reader:

I WAS ON MATCH FOR ONE MONTH IT IS NOT WHAT IS IS CRACKED UP TO BE .NEVER MET ANY ONE . THEY WANT MONEY AND A HARLEY. NOT HONESTY THEY WANT A FREE RIDE TO EVERY THING.

WHY ELSE IS IT UNWRITEN THAT ON A DATE THAT WOMEN NEVER TAKE ALONG A PURSE .THEY DONT HAVE TO PAY FOR ANY THING .

Here’s my number one rule to meeting women online:
Get on the phone and then onto a “real date” AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

Why?
Because the Internet is swarmed with what I call “professional chatters” and “professional callers”.

“Professional chatters” love to email and chat with you for fun.

They may send you tons of emails to tease you about “getting to know each other better”.

They may even have “cybersex” with you, but they will NEVER give you their phone numbers because they don’t know you “enough” yet.