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“The Natural Art of Seduction” by Richard La Ruina aka Gambler revitalises the theory of pickup by advancing on the traditional schools of thought

The pickup community is beset with techniques, routines and analyses claiming to unlock the door to success with women. In fact the field has become so saturated with literature that it’s almost impossible to find anything new which really makes you stand up listen … almost.

I get a lot of people asking me what are the best openers, but often they don’t realise that it is not the openers that give you the power to seduce women. It is the transition that is more important, it is important to know how you are going to follow up your opener. Imagine this, when you open a HB with lets say, “Should I dye my hair blond?” you may get an answer as simple as “Yes” and you say “Alright, thanks, bye” its not too good. Only if you are very shy person and are starting out pick-up then its fine. You can say anything to open a HB but it’s important to be aware of what you are going to follow up with.

Pick up is an addiction.

For a long while I was obsessed with pickup and the art of seducing women. Now, some of my friends and those of you that witness the regular updates of this site might still see me as under the influence of that same said obsession with sarging, but there’s a difference in my mindset now. Admittedly, many hours in my day are still spent devoted to pick up in some variety but I do it now out of interest and a desire to help others, and not the blind egotistical fixation it once was.

The term Bitch Shield refers to the primitive psychological protection ladies often put in an attempt to ward of those they consider creeps and/or misfits. It can usually be broken down by refusing to acknowledge the actual relevance of a bitch shield, hence making the imaginary self-defence device irrelevant. It is a front a woman will do to defend herself from getting played.

So you’ve managed to get some return from your approaches, and your now about to go on a second date? Congratulations! Please accept a virtual high five from me. However it’s not necessarily plain sailing from this point, and sometimes second dates can even have more pitfalls than the first, I know it’s a nightmare!

“But I’m so much more sociable after a few beers!”

This is the response I usually get when I advise students to try and go out into the field without drinking. We have a big drinking culture in the UK, and before I discovered the game I was as guilty as anyone of going out and drinking way too much. I misguidedly thought that alcohol would improve my social skills and give me a better chance of meeting girls. Guess what? I didn’t get laid! Thankfully I now think differently.

I remember when I was learning about the game and had just started approaching women for the first time. My learning process went through the following stages:

One of the most interesting and exciting challenges that men face in life is where the best locations for meeting women are. We are always searching for that Holy Grail, but ultimately, no one place is ever an absolute gold mine, especially if your tastes in women are broad and open-minded. Unlike the standard roll call of the usual places like clubs, pubs or bars, this article is going to give you the inside scoop on a few Player-friendly events that are successful pickup locations.

Most guys live their life in a very small box. And the secret to making big changes, the secret to busting out of that tiny little box is quite simply changing the way you think about things.Now, most guys don’t really think about meeting girls online in the right way. But it’s a mine-field of women in there to game.

Pick-up is nowadays starting to be categorized in two groups. There is day game and night game, its two different types of pick-up. The type of women that you are likely to meet is going to be different in each of the situations. There is certainly a difference in the mind-set of the women on each of the situations. Before you go sarging, you need to be subconsciously aware of the mind-set of your target HB.