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I know this girl that already has a boyfriend, but she treats me better than she treats him. She flirts with me but I refuse to flirt back because I think that it’s wrong. We seem to talk very well too. What should i do?

Thanks for the great tips. All right, there is this one girl that I have been talking to. We have been friends now for a year and a half. She just got out of a three year relationship. We started going out together and having a good time. I started to feel that she was starting to like me. Any ways, last week I told her how I felt, then she told me how she felt. She told me that right now it will feel too awkward to go out with me b/c she doesn’t want to hurt me.

I don’t know if I am really submitting a “tip” but I could not find a link to contact you. I have a suggestion / Question..

I was recently at a club and was observing others, some were friends and others were just people trying to “PLAY”. One thing I noticed was that one of my friends used a closing line. During the time we spent at the club we met a few people (men and women), basically networking around. But every time we would met someone and finished out conversation my buddy would depart saying the following..

I was foolin’ around on the internet this past week and came across your site. At first I thought it joke, but as I read more of the tips, articles, etc. I got very interested in testing some of these “techniques” out. I memorized the most basic of them and went to the club later that night. To my surprise they worked like a charm on the ladies. I found that my greatest short coming with women came from being afraid of rejection and being what you defined as a “watcher” in your article Definition of a player.

First of all I want you to know that it’s a great site and I mostly like the articles that you write, they are really good and have helped a lot because I’ve become more confident and I am getting more girls than I want, thank you for that.

I think the best article is “Confidence Overdrive” and I have a question about it: I always tell my friends about my personal life and also ask them for advice alot. Do you think this is something wrong? In the article it says don’t tell them if you get laid but it doesn’t say don’t tell them the other parts or ask them for advice. So is what I’m doing right? I also have one more question..

This is a conversation that took place in the newly added Player’s Chat Room, and I think many of you may find it to be interesting and/or helpful.

Turner: Yo guys, whats the best lies, as in not telling the truth, to tell women to get them going. I’ve often seen the “Im successful and rich” approach work the best for one nighters, what you guys have?

To begin with. I don’t want to “play” this woman but definitely want “it” to happen when the timing is right.

She is at the beginning stages of a divorce. She’s talked about it openly to me and it’s headed down that path of ‘going to get worse before it get’s better’ divorces. My reservations are the things I want to protect in my life. (e.g. don’t need an angry soon to be ex showing up on my door step)

Alright.. well to start I’m not really a beginner, more like sophomore, haha. I’m not stupid about girls and I pretty much know the basics. Well lately I’ve been seeing this girl. I met her about 4 months ago but only now have we been chilling a lot. I usually go over to her apartment and we just hang out. we’re both college students and we went to the same high school but didn’t really talk until now.

This is a question if this girl likes me as a boyfriend interest or likes me as a friend… Alright lets see, for the past year I’ve been going to this particular club every Sunday night, almost every weekend I’ve seen this one girl “Jenny”, I’m not much of a brave man in regards to women, as a result I’ve only talked to her just a bit either through friends or at after-bar parties (but only small side conversations).

First of all I would like to congratulate you on this great site, it’s got alot of useful advice. My problem is that there is this one girl that I’m supposed to be with, I like her alot and think of her the most out of all the others, but recently everytime we set a day aside to meet up she flops. Basically this is my story… (it’s a long one so you might wanna make a cup of tea or something..)