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I have posted my online methods recently, and I have had many very successful field reports involving meeting women online. I have given much advice that will help you all achieve online dating success. I feel like I’ve done very well in this aspect of my game, and as a result wanted to share everything that I’ve learned along the way with the world, which is why I have created this online dating guide. However, one thought kept running through my mind as I was pondering about the methods that surround dating online.

Dating Women Online & Building Comfort

Building comfort online means assuming that you already have it!

Part of the key to building comfort in online game is through teasing and the DHV story. Don’t use online e-mail exchanges to ask a million questions about her. This does nothing to build comfort or attraction, and you are losing conversation topics for the eventual date. Instead, use DHV stories and teasing in order to build comfort. Treat her like an old friend or a bratty little sister, continue this mentality during the phone conversation, THEN treat her like a date once you actually see her. Examples of this in action:

I’ve been really toying with my online dating style, and have been getting good results. Through the Seduction University and this website, I decided to emphasize the DHV story more in online gaming and have had great responses.

Online Neg Strategy That Works Wonders

I recently had somewhat of a breakthrough concerning online dating. I’m currently hooking up with a couple of girls, but a lot is never enough so I’m back to finding women online as I’ve been somewhat “busy” otherwise. Anyway, in the second e-mail, after you’ve sent your opener (check other sections of this guide for info on some great online openers), give the following response (let’s say the girls name is Allie):

Welcome To The Online Dating Guide

After reading a handful of threads on the Seduction University and the entire section on online dating experiences from the main page, I have come to the conclusion that a great deal of you have no clue what you’re doing when it comes to utilizing online dating sites and personals. Not that you can be blamed, it’s a different kind of jungle out there and I’m just now discovering what works after two years of falling on my face both online and in person. There’s a lot of disinformation out there, and some of you are coming into the online dating realm with it. One of the worst assumptions out there is that you should take your time while meeting girls online. This is wrong, wrong, wrong, and I’ll talk about it later. I’ll talk about a lot of things. I’ll be covering some major ground here in this online dating guide.

Dear Dr.,
I really learned a lot from your article entitled “Dating Two (or More) women at the Same Time”. I have a few questions though and I’d really appreciate it if you could give me some advice on this. I recently started dating a woman. I like her but I know she’s not the woman for me in the long run. She’s concerned and tells me she really doesn’t want to see me with other women.

There are infinite numbers of opening lines or better termed “conversation starters” that can be effectively used to break the ice in a social setting. It is improtant to keep in mind that there are just as many other crucial factors effecting the impact of the initial contact of a phrase. Your appearance, the way you deliver your lines, the way you conduct yourself, how and where you stand, eye contact, voice volume and tone, speech speed, smile, your physical gestures such as handshake or bow, the state of your breath can all convey self-confidence, proper image, intelligence, charm, respect… or the lack thereof. Even the most witty and hysterical opening can fall on it face if delivered poorly with mumbled tone of voice, gestures portraying lack of confidence, and fishy breath to top it off.

Whether or not the woman makes the choice to follow through on this attraction and have sex with you remains to be seen. If she’s already attracted naturally, then you have no use for SS nonsense because she’s already receptive. No need to brainwash her to get her panties off. If she is not attracted naturally, then she is naturally the opposite: resistant, which means it is absolutely impossible for you to alter her mind in any manner. If she feels no attraction to you, there’s a reason for it that’s all a part of genetic coding – quite simply, your natural radar is too much like her own so there is no polarity, therefore no attraction, and there is nothing you can do to change it.

This polarity issue is THE core reason beneath our attraction to anyone. Likes cannot mate with likes, two females cannot create life nor perpetuate the species. Nor can two males. We’re programmed to recognize and be compelled to the opposites. This is encoded into us and we cannot change it. It’s the reason ultra feminine women do not find effeminate males sexually compelling at all – we require a balance of this male/female polarity for the sole purpose of mating and evolution. We subconsciously recognize proper suitors as being the polar opposite of who and what we are. The active/masculine and passive/feminine polarity is required for mating, creating, sustaining, perpetuating and evolving life. We were all designed to recognize our proper opposites. This is also at the core of why we are attracted to some people and not to others.

Is she talking to you? It seems like such an obvious concept, but as a teen or as a stupid guy it may be the most difficult thing to figure out.

As we know, hot chicks and chicks in general get hit on all the time. As a result, they become rather “bitchy” and selective as they get older. And rightfully so. Imagine having to talk to someone like yourself all day long?