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So you’ve managed to get some return from your approaches, and your now about to go on a second date? Congratulations! Please accept a virtual high five from me. However it’s not necessarily plain sailing from this point, and sometimes second dates can even have more pitfalls than the first, I know it’s a nightmare!

“But I’m so much more sociable after a few beers!”

This is the response I usually get when I advise students to try and go out into the field without drinking. We have a big drinking culture in the UK, and before I discovered the game I was as guilty as anyone of going out and drinking way too much. I misguidedly thought that alcohol would improve my social skills and give me a better chance of meeting girls. Guess what? I didn’t get laid! Thankfully I now think differently.

I remember when I was learning about the game and had just started approaching women for the first time. My learning process went through the following stages:

One of the most interesting and exciting challenges that men face in life is where the best locations for meeting women are. We are always searching for that Holy Grail, but ultimately, no one place is ever an absolute gold mine, especially if your tastes in women are broad and open-minded. Unlike the standard roll call of the usual places like clubs, pubs or bars, this article is going to give you the inside scoop on a few Player-friendly events that are successful pickup locations.

According to dictionary.com the meaning of the word Entourage is a group of attendants or associates, as of a person of rank or importance. In other words I am talking about companions or colleagues who are around to meet your needs and among all your companions you are the person of higher importance. It’s your entourage.

Most guys live their life in a very small box. And the secret to making big changes, the secret to busting out of that tiny little box is quite simply changing the way you think about things.Now, most guys don’t really think about meeting girls online in the right way. But it’s a mine-field of women in there to game.

Pick-up is nowadays starting to be categorized in two groups. There is day game and night game, its two different types of pick-up. The type of women that you are likely to meet is going to be different in each of the situations. There is certainly a difference in the mind-set of the women on each of the situations. Before you go sarging, you need to be subconsciously aware of the mind-set of your target HB.

There are people I know who have never even heard of The Game by Neil Strauss, let alone read it, who are naturally confident, funny, and good with women. They’re naturals, and there is something about them which women find irresistible.

Granted, there are literally only a couple of people I’ve met in my life who are like this, but they ooze confidence and testosterone, and are able to seduce women seemingly at ease, which leads me to the question of this article.

It’s generally recognized that there are three stages of being a PUA. Attraction, comfort, and seduction. Most men can easily relate to the benefits of attracting and seducing a girl, but not so many see the value in building comfort, even though it’s a vital stage of seducing a girl.

Some people can make PU very complicated, breaking down all aspects of interaction and looking at the ‘value’ what people do and say. I don’t feel that this approach is in any way constructive, and merely serves to overcomplicate and confuse things, which is going to hold back your improvement.