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I am often asked, “How can I undo the damage I have already done to a relationship, such as not acting enough of a challenge to a woman or getting into a big argument with her?”

Unfortunately, this is no magic fix. You can’t just go back in time and “fix” any damage that has already been done.

tephane,

I have a lovely girl, she’s bright, sexy, open minded, and crazy about me
ect ect.

But …

I am still into other girls, like years of being single have me ‘looking’
still, is there somthing magical that is suppost to happen to a man when
he enters a healthy relationship where all outside sexual desire
dissapears?

Do guys with girlfriends still check out other girls? Shouldn’t one girl
be enough?

R.

Here’s a warning to all of my readers:

You may sleep with a girl’s body, but when it comes to a long-term relationship, you marry her character!

You think you have trouble tolerating her attitude and character now…but you’re resisting breaking up because you do not want to stop having sex with that hot body?

It’s pretty rare that a girl who liked you enough to isolate herself with you will not have sex.

Still, sometimes a woman will put up some final resistance at the last moment when she realizes that if she doesn’t stop herself immediately, sex will be inevitable.

ometimes it is the little things that make the biggest difference in attracting or not attracting women.

Take for instance a man smiling or not smiling at women.

Both ways have the power to attract women, however success depends on the mans approach.

Not smiling works when a man is at a point in his life where he really does not want to be bothered and could care less about women.

Do you base your success with attracting women mainly on how well you do at bars or clubs?

While the ability to pickup women in bars or clubs can be considered an aspect of successfully attracting women, it in no way proves if you are a success attracting women.

If you are not comfortable around a whole bunch of incoherent drunks there is need to test you skills at a bar.

What I plan on discussing right now usually happens at bars and clubs, even though it can happen anytime a man is interacting with a woman.

Imagine for a moment that you are talking with a woman when she suddenly decides to tell you that she is married or has a boyfriend.

The next time you go out, find a guy who’s doing pretty good with women.

You’ll know him. He’ll be the guy dressed a little more, well, eccentrically, than everyone else.

Maybe he’s scanning the room, or maybe he’s talking real excitedly to a bunch of girls until he starts to makeout with one on the dance floor.

You’ll find one of these guys in every club. When you see him, go up to him and ask him what he did.

A question that I get all the time is, “Marius…I know a lot of women like to go hunting for sex at bars and clubs. But a lot of women also like to go out to meet new friends and see if they can find a potential boyfriend. So if I meet a woman at a bar or nightclub, how can I know what she really wants? How do I know if she wants a one-night stand or a relationship right away?”

Hi Dave,

I met a girl in a club the other night, using techniques I’ve learnt from you guys, I approached her and it all went perfectly well. We had a dance and a kiss but her friends eventually dragged her away at 4am because they had to go, she really didn’t want to leave!